I used to think that. But the amount of people hiding it, or just coping, is probably higher than you think.

Like I live in a pretty small city with an average gay community, and all it took was one person coming out as trans for a bunch of others to go “oh you know what me too - let’s do this,” so now we have like a whole posse of trans men that I see at the gym all the time (with their gains and their cool names lol).

I’m not saying this is always the case by any stretch, but if someone is super butch or super femme, they might not be cis.