I can’t use them because I can’t convince anybody to switch with me. I talk to most people on discord and I’d rather move to using Matrix, but I can’t convince any of my friends or family or anyone I know to use anything else.

  • Sproutling@lemmy.ml
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    28 days ago

    I only have a few privacy-focused friends on Signal and Matrix and I talk to them that way. I have a few friends who use my personal Nextcloud and just use Nextcloud Talk to chat with me. For all others, I still use the mainstream platforms and just take care to not post any info that I don’t want public and I make sure the apps have limited info and app permissions.

    I think it is tough to convince others to switch until they themselves see the need, at which point they’ll start asking you for advice on what to do.

    With new contacts, I’ll usually ask if they have Signal first and if they don’t then I don’t really push it. I think just getting the name out there every once in a while is the most you can do.

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      26 days ago

      Make yourself visibly more available in one place over another. Don’t try convincing anyone. Let your actions do the talking. : )