• PowerCrazy@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Maybe don’t move somewhere that your job and kids school is hundreds of miles away? My child’s school is down the street, and I can take the subway to work in about 15min. This was a specific choice my wife and I made when we chose to live here.

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      1 year ago

      Hundreds of miles? I think you misread. They’re several miles away.

      Also it’s a lot easier said than done to just up and move somewhere more convenient. I don’t have that luxury, and telling me to do so will get you a big fat “go fuck yourself” from me for being so insufferable about it.

      Now move along and go bug someone else with your luxury conveniences.

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        1 year ago

        Your reality is the one that’s grounded in reality.

        You can’t win, either way. When you move for work or whatever and then say you wish you could see your family and old friends more, you get the same shitty response: well, you didn’t have to choose to move away. Or if you complain that your landlord keeps putting up the rent, you get told, ‘why don’t you just buy’, as if the bank doesn’t just put up the mortgage if it’s even an option. It’s almost like capitalism loves liberal individualism, where every societal fault can be blamed on the individual for not taking better choices.

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        1 year ago

        Oh great, let’s use privilege as a bludgeon to enforce the status quo. This is great and also happens to be indistinguishable from doing nothing.

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            1 year ago

            It’s possible for billions today right now including millions in America. So maybe you should expand your understanding of what is possible instead of being a reactionary fighting change.

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                1 year ago

                Billions of people in the world live without cars. The possibilities of this don’t need to be explained since they are actively occurring across the world. Within America there are ~10% of household that do not have a car. https://usa.streetsblog.org/2021/10/22/u-s-cities-have-more-car-free-households-than-you-think This is a good thing btw, and it should fully demonstrate that such a life is absolutlely possible, and could be improved and expanded.

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                  So you’re saying that in areas which allow for people to live without cars, people live without cars, and this is why people who live in areas that DON’T allow for people to live without cars, should also live without cars? What?

                  If the environment is designed solely for cars, you can’t just ditch your car. And unless you’re wealthy you can’t just up and move.

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                    1 year ago

                    I’m saying if you voluntarilly move to a place that requires a car, your opinion is made clear: you don’t give a shit about the future and your selfishness is apparent.