@Nath
Thanks. I think stories of people who transitioned as an adult offer a very valuable perspective on gender. A lot of differences just exist, are never spoken about let alone examined.

(Btw: some of the stuff he describes as ‘female’ does not ring true to me at all: I don’t talk in the bathroom, I’m not particularly scared of dudes in the dark, nobody comments on my food in the office. Country and wealth and ugly/pretty are probably all factors there)