• Mario_Dies.wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    10 months ago

    One thing I’ve learned living in a conservative state in the US is that everything is my fault by proxy

    I should just be rich enough to move, how hard can it be

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        10 months ago

        “We should just build a wall around your state and force it to secede. All the LGBT+ and POC should relocate immediately because it’s not safe to live there.”

        “What about all the people who can’t afford to move? What about all the people living on tribal land?”

        “Oh, them? Hmmm. They should move, too. Again.”

        The fact is, right-wing extremism shouldn’t be tolerated anywhere. Putting all the fascists “on an island” doesn’t fix anything because there will always be children and other people who never asked to be there, yet have to suffer.

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      10 months ago

      Huh. Welcome to “you should have been rich adult” club. I’m not alone in such shit.

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      10 months ago

      How do all those immigrants move, though? Are they all secretly rich? Or are you, in fact, just comfortable enough not to want to move?

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        10 months ago

        Are you comparing fleeing from war and poverty to moving to some other state because you care about abortions being available?

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          10 months ago

          He’s not talking in good faith. I’m married to a first-gen immigrant from Mexico. I can tell you how “they” move. Unless they’re rich out the gate, in which case there’s a completely different process, they save up money for years, ask for money from relatives, live in extreme discomfort, and then eventually are able to move.

          Once established, it’s not like “they” can pick up at any time and relocate. Now they’re trapped in three or four jobs working the entire day, with still barely enough money for rent and food.

          Eventually, some of “them” might be fortunate enough to be able to afford the massive investment of time and money for residency and maybe even citizenship.

          Maybe even some of “them” will fall in love and get married and start a beautiful life together.

          But maybe “they” and even their spouse have misfortune. Healthcare can totally collapse you. Maybe “they” and their spouse save up money for years, but it’s never enough. “They” have got PTSD from their prior life experiences, and their spouse develops health problems. Neither of them want these things to happen, but one ends up in and out of psych wards and psychiatrists’ offices, and the other ends up shitting himself for more than five years, finally after thousands and thousands of dollars discovers he has celiac, but has also fucked other things up in the meantime by developing addiction to alcohol and opiods, which are so easy to become addicted to in this society. So their big plans to move to the big city keep falling through. “They” might lie awake at night feeling tremendous guilt about this, on top of everything else, even though it’s not “their” fault.

          That’s how “they” move, and that’s how many of “them” might not be able to just fucking relocate like some privileged neckbeard from lemmy.world suggests.

          I know many other immigrants and refugees. I know many similar cases.

          TL;DR “They” are the same as “us”

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            10 months ago

            What did I say for you to badmouth me here, exactly? And why do you keep putting “they” in quotes? I can tell you’re waiting for some big gotcha moment. What is it?

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          10 months ago

          Yes. One is more uncomfortable than the other. I believe you already understand that.

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        10 months ago

        They don’t move, either. I’m married to a first-gen immigrant. Getting here is a massive undertaking, but then?

        And what do you mean, all “those” immigrants?

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          10 months ago

          They move at least once in order to be immigrants, from their home country to the foreign country they now live in.

          I mean literally every single immigrant because that’s the definition of an immigrant.

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      10 months ago

      rich enough to move

      Just so we’re clear, you’re simultaneously too rich to move (like a Guatemalan farmer) and too poor to move (like a IT graduate)?

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          10 months ago

          To make it abundantly clear, for most people on earth, and for most of human history, being poor was and is not a blocker to moving. In fact it’s a great enabler. Comfortable middle income people don’t move.