There are issues that have been on my mind for a few days, and I wanted to talk about them with you.
Downvotes
As you may notice, downvotes have been completely off for the last few days. I did this because I couldn’t resist the pressure of some friends :/ I still don’t know what to do about this. The majority of members probably want it to be completely open. As mods, posters and admins; some think it should be closed, some think it should be restricted (I guess).
I guess there is no solution that makes everyone happy. I realized I don’t have admin skills in stressful situations, I’m a fucking stupid lol :D I miss @gabe so much.
lemmyposter212 suggested “fuzzy votes” or something that can work for us too. I think I’ll just ghost this issue for a while.
Donations
As you know, all our donation accounts have been closed. Since it was my first time opening a site in the NSFW area, I had no experience. I reviewed some adult donation sites but most of them were shady. Honestly I couldn’t trust them.
There are only coins now. But I guess most people don’t want to deal with coins. It is because I didn’t get any donations about 4 months now :D Those sent from Github Sponsor or Patreon were also returned to donators as well. I received $200-ish donations so far.
We are currently the 2nd largest instance in Lemmy. After lemmy.world, we’re bigger than lemmy.ml and lemm.ee! I don’t think it will work this way anymore. On an annual basis, I need to spend a month’s salary for Lemmy NSFW.
Does anyone have an idea to solve this problem?
While I don’t have any solutions for you I do have enormous amounts of respect and gratitude.
Downvotes: I don’t personally miss them because I rarely used them. Either a comment/post is egregious that it warrants a report or reply, else it’s worth ignoring. If the Content Creators prefer no downvotes because they’re discouraging, then that’s fine by me, more content is more better and the report button exists for “rule breaking” and “off topic”.
Donations: No solutions only sympathy here. I hope you figure something out, I’m not sure the promise of a donation if/when you do helps or hurts right now. You’re right that “sketch” is a barrier to entry for donations, but I can’t donate the kind of money that my donation is worth chasing anyways.
LemmyNSFW became my main by accident, but it remains my main because I haven’t found an instance I like better. The way you conduct yourself through challenges such as defederation, the Blahaj (sp) conversations, preemptive defence agains Meta… Honestly, it’s close to faultless and looking at other instances it’s hard to leave. Thank you and much love.
I agree with you on downvotes as in I barely used them on this instance either.
If you are looking for a new main, have you considered e.g. lemmings.world (not to be mixed up with lemmy.world)? I have my current main Lemmy account on there and so far it is good (albeit is not as “tested by trial” as LemmyNSFW has been so far). It’s up to you though.