• Sneezycat@sopuli.xyz
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    6 months ago

    Not a voice mod, but my voice passes as fem now, so I started talking in VC.

    Started playing phasmophobia and it’s a lot of fun, but sometimes you get one or two dudes that start making “funny” mysogynistic comments and it’s pretty annoying cause it’s the Same. Thing. Every. Time.

    “Oooh it’s in the kitchen, must be a woman ghost!” Looks at me to gauge my reaction.

    Joins room I say hi “A FEMALE??? I’m not playing with a female” disconnects

    And more. Spawntaneous is a youtuber that has a series of videos about being a “girl gamer” and it’s very eye opening. You don’t get that kind of people every match, but you do get them every couple hours you play, and even if you somehow find it funny the first time, it gets old really quick.

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    6 months ago

    Online games that let you talk to strangers aren’t great when you’re a guy either. Not because of targeted harassment, but because you often enough just end up with people screaming into the mic or repeating the N word over and over again for no reason. The last time I turned on voice chat with strangers was 7 years ago, with PUBG, and I quickly turned it back off. (It feels wrong that that game is somehow 7 years old.)

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      6 months ago

      I’m sorry but it is definitely nowhere as close as the kind of harassment women receive. They have to deal with insults based on their gender, sexual harassment, digital stalking outside of games, etc