I think I have figured out what my relo problem is.
It’s the consistency. I think because I might send a message one day and then I get a reply the next day or even the day after sometimes, I just want more.
It’s probably a bit much of me to expect that from someone if they’re busy and hardly on their phone, but even just a dot or an emoji or something that would take five seconds to send would keep me at bay. I’ve dealt with inconsistency in a relationship before and it turned out that that person didn’t have good intentions. I know rationally with this guy, he’s not an absolute prick and wouldn’t do that. I know that he does care. Unless I’m lying to myself
I think a simple message each day would just show that he cares and is willing to put in the effort.
I think I have figured out what my relo problem is.
It’s the consistency. I think because I might send a message one day and then I get a reply the next day or even the day after sometimes, I just want more.
It’s probably a bit much of me to expect that from someone if they’re busy and hardly on their phone, but even just a dot or an emoji or something that would take five seconds to send would keep me at bay. I’ve dealt with inconsistency in a relationship before and it turned out that that person didn’t have good intentions. I know rationally with this guy, he’s not an absolute prick and wouldn’t do that. I know that he does care. Unless I’m lying to myself
I think a simple message each day would just show that he cares and is willing to put in the effort.
Am I asking for too much?
No. It leaves you wondering. Seems like a potential, keep you hanging and wondering routine. Pretty easy to send an I’m thinking of you text.