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  • One reason is that IP’s can be more granular as another user pointed out. OTOH that doesn’t always work so well, either - I often get pinpointed to a location some 100km from where I actually am.

    Another reason could be to circumvent people’s privacy settings, which are becoming more popular even without using a VPN. Essentially a sort of “we don’t trust you with the data you give us about yourself”.

    And since others brought up search engines etc., there’s a third reason: I always use English on my computer UI, but I am not in England and English is not my first language. Sometimes it’s nice to still get localised results (DDG has a drop-down to change this on the fly though).

    Oh, and while trying to find a site that tells me where it thinks my IP is located right now I noticed that the top search results all ask location permissions and show me nothing without them. And “Location” is a combo of IP, cell tower and GPS. It might come down to IP only on a laptop, but soon maybe not anymore.








  • I hope you mean supportive of your son.

    If so, I see this dynamic play out in some families (I work with kids) and I don’t like it. Dad metes out rules/punishment, mom’s role is to be nurturing instead. It teaches kids to play their parents out against each other. To go to another authority figure if the first one said no. To become incomplete.

    As for your question: this is over the top for a 15yo. And that’s not how you help kids to learn self-regulation. It’s also kinda dismissive of puberty. OTOH it’s important to get enough sleep, esp. if you go to school, and he might need constant reminding of that. Yep, raising kids is never straightforward.




  • I am running things locally.

    Sorry, I missed that. It invalidates part of my comment.

    I cannot get an ssl cert for my local network stuff

    You can make a self-signed cert. If your mobile app does not have an option to accept it (“ignore SSL errors”) then it won’t work, maybe there’s an alternative?

    caldav does not support recurring stuff on the todo … It seems that they all internally juggle how recurring stuff happens

    CalDAV is a protocol, which remains the same. The server has little to do with how apps handle things. I have no experience with tasks, but under the hood it’s just another calendar and does not treat recurring events differently. I’m guessing these limitations/inconsistencies are app specific.


  • So your server is running NextCloud? I hope you have it locked down tight, with all it’s web ui access points.

    I started out with by doing my own calendar.

    Wasn’t the first thing for me, but the most consistent over time. Calendar and Contacts, synced between phone and laptop. I used first DaviCal, now Radicale.

    The next move I did was to bring my todo list over.

    AFAIK these are just CalDAV calendars labeled todo; all you need is a different client app, the server software is the same.

    Only downsides is that it is a bit more strict (particularly on the mobile app) about an ssl cert.

    Can you explain? Doing things encrypted by default is extremely important.