Listen, Im over here wearing my floaties, watching sales people doing a triple gainer off the high-dive. I’m not trying to pretend to be especially good with the social skills. All I’m saying is water is wet. Some people have an affinity to those sorts of skills, some don’t. Some people work at it. Some can’t. Everyone has to at least bathe though. That’s a metaphor, but also not.
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Why do you need to be forced by society to develop social skills?
Social skills is another way of saying the abilities required to function in a society. You might as well ask why do you need to learn to swim to get in the pool.
Why isn’t putting your best forward enough?
Often it is, but to stretch the metaphor used above, they are going to be stuck in the shallow end.
hey! I resemble those remarks!
First thing that came to my mind when I saw the question ‘What is his life like?’
He dated Grace Jones
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL canned bananas are a thing. (And that it's very risky to try doing so yourself.)English2·2 months agoIs that the type they put in turon? I love those things.
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL That there's a dish in some parts of Southeast Asia called "American Fried Rice"English7·2 months agoKinda makes me think of Filipino spaghetti. Banana ketchup and hotdogs! Actually not as bad as it sounds.
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•This whole "Sign in to prove you're not a bot" thing is pissing me offEnglish9·2 months agoI am bleeding, making me the victor
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Technology@beehaw.org•Deepseek when asked about sensitive topics3·4 months agoIt’s not likely they would. The US did some fucked up stuff, but (in this case) didn’t try to hide it…
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Leopards Ate My Face@lemmy.world•Liberals Warned Me About MAGA’s Racism. I Didn’t Believe Them—Until Now.English151·4 months agoThis was my take as well. They only realized the MAGA folks were racist when they called Indians filthy.
When they were calling mexicans rapists and murders 😴
When they said africa was full of shithole countries 😴
I could go on, but it is kinda exhausting. Coming up next is the working class people when they start getting called white trash. Its coming once they consolidate enough power and dont need them anymore.
My brother loves his xterra so much he is on his 3rd (first was an accident, second went to the ex in the divorce). I rarely ride in it, but it seems kinda like a rattle trap to me. I dont know how much of that is his abuse and how much is the car.
the pardon is for tax and gun charges, right? no drug charges?
at this point I don’t give a fuck, I just don’t want to hear the words “democrat” and “strategist” in the same sentence anymore.
Sometimes we might not do a great job because we didn’t know what we were doing and other times we were geniuses because we had messed up so many times before that we finally figured out how to do it right.
As I grow older, I find this is how you become an ‘expert’. You start not knowing how to do it, then you figure out all the wrong ways to do it by doing it wrong. Eventually, when you have messed it up in more ways than anyone else you know which paths not to take and you are then the expert.
Lol
I’m not a programmer but I have at least one double booking every day. Some weeks look like a brick wall sideways (they seem to always overlap by a half hour for some reason).
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Repeat after me "this problem isn't bothering me". There! fixed it5·11 months agothat would make someone a real bastard…
I have to admit, even while finding the crooked corners of the internet with rotten and CJ, I did hold onto the belief that access to information was going to lift the masses up out of ignorance. I knew about flamewars since the BBS days. I knew about trolls since rm -rf advice was given. I, in my naivete, seriously underestimated the effects of these phenomenon on society writ large.
Ive done it as a cure to a cold. its not great. I will eat toom by the bucketful though
Naturally! Then add another clove for good luck. Plus those two cloves look small, better add another.
GorGor@startrek.websiteto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is your favorite 100% non political "just nice music" music artist?1·1 year agoThat’s why my favorite composer is Edgard Varèse
I really miss our used book store. It was tiny but packed, and it had that smell.