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Cake day: September 5th, 2025

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  • I love swimming for that reason yeah. I’d do it a lot more if I had easier access to a pool. I had been looking into places near me to go to but it’s hard to find times that work for it. Might get a little easier once the kids are a little older and we could take them easier.

    More importantly though, that’s not being the people in the joke. It might not feel like it, but there is a big difference between seeing someone struggling with a limitation that you also struggle with and offering something that helped you, and someone who has no idea what you’re going through pulling a suggestion out of their ass and making it sound easy. It hits different when your suggestion comes from a place of seeing a shared struggle and mentioning what helped you.



  • This is probably the worst part mentally about chronic joint pain for me. i want to be active, I want to lose weight, but I’m sitting here maxing out what I can physically handle just doing my everyday stuff. On a GOOD day I get about 3k steps in and I’m feeling it for days after. It’s so goddamn demoralizing.

    Then in my case I’m also taking care of my partner whose health has been declining and 3 autistic kids. It feels like I’m barely keeping up.









  • For a lot of these people this is unironically the first time they saw themselves in the victim and therefore the victim as a person. The first time the “tragedy” was more than a prop in the gun debate or something happening to their political enemies.

    They see people mocking Charlie Kirk and their reaction is “Wait, Charlie and I aren’t that different… They’d treat me the exact same way if I was the victim instead,” and they can’t handle it. Y’know, that thing that basically every queer person and person of color already knew about the right.