I don’t think shame and embarrassment are the same thing. Embarrassment often requires humility, but when people are ashamed, they dodge accountability.
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People shame women for equivalent choices all the time.
That’s why he had a trans child, because he tempted fate
Although a woman having kids with multiple guys would probably negatively impact her, this choice doesn’t have the same consequences for her in society. An equivalent “bad choice” for a woman would be marrying an older man at a young age, never getting an education, never getting a job, having multiple kids with him, and then allowing him to be The Head of the Household without any input from her. Long term, that would put her in a similarly disadvantaged social position as a man with multiple baby mommas, if she were an average person.
I didn’t say that people who have kids out of wedlock or who get married before adulthood deserve to be kicked out of society and neither do people who pick their nose in public or who steal from the collection plate at church. I said it’s embarrassing and probably shouldn’t be encouraged.
I’m sorry nobody taught you how to be a man, it’s tough when that’s the reality, I can relate to that too. Hang in there.
LOL that’s what my wife said, with full sincerity, she said he might have been born deformed due to the shape of his torso. I don’t think so. People who have that kind of deformity tend to get only the amount of surgeries necessary, only a guy who was insecure about his perfectly normal penis would get like 80 surgeries to make it bigger. Just my two cents
As a man not taking care of your multiple kids is embarrassing and most guys can’t mentally or financially afford to take care of multiple kids. Paying child support instead of providing for your kid day to day is embarrassing. Multiple child support payments can bankrupt you, they’ll dock your wages. Not paying child support is a felony in some States. Of course this is only the rule for us poors.
Nailing multiple hoes with no protection is a gamble on getting a kid or an STD. It’s incredibly stupid. This is just how guys in my generation tend to think. Edit: Not that Elon “nailed” anybody, his kids are all from IVF allegedly, which is even more embarrassing than just having multiple kids from different women.
He’s allegedly had like 80 surgeries on his previously-normal penis, so I think that’s unlikely…
When did having multiple baby mommas become NOT embarrassing?
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•People who are staying on Plex, have you tried Jellyfin? What about it do you not prefer? (real question)English
1·18 hours agoIt is incredibly difficult to get jelljfin ypen into your friends or your parents or grandparents house without considerable setup and maintenance over time.
Not in my experience. I just had to click a few buttons. Once you set it up, it just works, with only the need to occasionally update the server.
Granted, I do have some experience in this area, so I might be doing the arrogant geologist meme. Maybe if it’s so difficult to set up, I should do a tutorial one of these days.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Technology@lemmy.world•California moves to exempt Linux from its upcoming age-verification law after backlash over forcing operating systems to collect users’ agesEnglish
22·1 day agoBecause it’s not about protecting children, obviously.
When someone with certain personality problems tells blatant lies, they are really only trying to convince themselves. You exist only as an introject inside their minds, you are not real to them, it does not matter if you don’t believe them because it doesn’t need to make sense to you.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Technology@lemmy.world•California moves to exempt Linux from its upcoming age-verification law after backlash over forcing operating systems to collect users’ agesEnglish
2·2 days agoYou’re placing a lot of "if"s in there, and treating them as if they’re already true.
I want your energy. I’m going to use this one in the future, thanks.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Technology@lemmy.world•California moves to exempt Linux from its upcoming age-verification law after backlash over forcing operating systems to collect users’ agesEnglish
3·2 days agoComments like these are very healing for me.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Technology@lemmy.world•California moves to exempt Linux from its upcoming age-verification law after backlash over forcing operating systems to collect users’ agesEnglish
2·2 days agoAmerican states are not at all like provinces.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Technology@lemmy.world•California moves to exempt Linux from its upcoming age-verification law after backlash over forcing operating systems to collect users’ agesEnglish
10·2 days agoThis is so common online.
Bad Thing happens.
People argue against Bad Thing incredibly fucking badly. Just abysmal. They don’t understand why or how the Bad Thing happened. They didn’t read the document containing Bad Thing. They don’t know who or what is involved with Bad Thing or where. Nonetheless, they vehemently argue against Bad Thing, using only their imagination as source material.
Someone with more experience fighting Bad Thing shows up in the comments, tries to argue against the misinformation, only to inevitably be accused of defending the Bad Thing.
Bobby@leminal.spaceto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•How would you expose Jellyfin securely without a vpn?English
1·3 days agoOh, ok, “they have to be” in the same way my seedbox says not to download copyright material. Got it.

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