my family is moving into a much bigger house than we used to have. we use amazon echos as an intercom system through the announcement feature. because our house is bigger, i’m being forced to get one myself for my room. i haven’t needed one for years because i use their app on my phone and i can see their announcements as a notification and i can also kill off most of its tracking by DNS. unfortunately my parents don’t understand this and are forcing me to get one. what can i do to limit its tracking?

  • kora@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    4 months ago

    You should hire a nicely-dressed and polite person to simply relay your messages in person. And while not needed, they could be tending to other tasks, like your laundry or maybe tending the garden…

    • kora@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      edit-2
      4 months ago

      #ProblemsOfTheUpper-Lowers

      Because I want to helpful: if you are moving to a home large enough for you to feel that an intercom is needed, then the cost associated with having a simple system installed would be the best way to maintain your privacy, well, your privacy to those without physical access to your home at least.

      I can’t think of any intercom-related reason that outweighs the needless additional network load, nightmarish privacy policies, and instant gratification through retail buttons, that a network of echo’s could provide.

  • waywardninja@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    4 months ago

    If not using it for Alexa connectivity, why not just get an actual intercom? A pair is like 30 bucks on Amazon, no Internet required.

    Or “hey Alexa, order an intercom system on my mom’s account”

    Isn’t there an eavesdropping function on Alexa… Maybe it’s actually less communication and more checking in on what you’re doing (not to increase your paranoia)

    • yoshisaur@lemm.eeOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      4 months ago

      my parents and siblings enjoy the convenience of alexas and the fact that they can play music. i’ve tried suggesting an actual intercom system and they’re against it

      • waywardninja@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        3 months ago

        As a parent, if my kid said “I don’t want to be tracked, I’m concerned about my privacy”, I’d get an intercom for everyone in the house and let the Alexa be opt in. Sounds like playing music using Alexa isn’t a game changer for you. What does it matter anyway, what if you like headphones better, the Alexa stuff isn’t mandatory for playing/listening to music.

    • Kerensky1101@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      I hate the drop in feature that alexa devices have. You can drop into any device in your home and no one had to accept. Essentially you can listen in without the other person knowing. If it had some sort of announcement that smoothie device was dropping in and it was possible to accept our decline that would be different.

  • StaySquared@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    Don’t get one. If your parents want an intercom system, have an actual intercom system installed. No need to violate your privacy.

  • mox@lemmy.sdf.org
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    edit-2
    4 months ago

    Were I in that position, I would resist, just as much as if they were trying to put video cameras in my bathroom and bedroom.

    I would suggest alternatives, and offer to research, order, and install them.

    I would appeal to my parents’ empathy, try to educate them on the risks of these corporate-controlled hackable devices bring with them, and on the negative impact that surveillance has on human development. I would try to persuade them, and if it came down to it, I would fight. I would look for allies to help: siblings, extended family members, school authorities, counselors… anyone whose views they might respect, both alone and in groups.

    If they stubbornly insisted, I would continue to bring it up regularly, both in private and in public. I would make sure that it was a constant drain on their time, and a constant source of resentment, and an issue that they would have to justify not only to themselves, but to the community around them.

    And, if I somehow couldn’t keep it out of my space or unpowered, I would open it up and disconnect the microphone, or perhaps wire a physical switch to allow connecting it only when needed. (By the way, reed switches exist that can be concealed within a device and activated from the outside with a magnet.)

    And then I would continue to fight.

  • SLfgb@feddit.nl
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    i haven’t needed one for years because i use their app on my phone and i can see their announcements as a notification and i can also kill off most of its tracking by DNS. unfortunately my parents don’t understand this Sounds like you have a reasonable, compatible alternative on your phone already. Will they even notice if you continue using this and never plug the new alexa in?

    • yoshisaur@lemm.eeOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      3 months ago

      probably not. i might just not plug it in and see how it goes. if it doesn’t work out, i guess i’ll have to DNS block its tracking from a openwrt pi

      • InputZero@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        3 months ago

        Good plan A.

        For a plan B, If your parents don’t understand why privacy is important on the internet they probably won’t understand why the echos in your room don’t seem to work. Say it’s wifi can’t reach the router, bend the cable so many times the wires break, “accidentally” become super clumsy with it and knock it over a bunch. This is absolutely a first world problem, it requires a first world solution.

  • Thetimefarm@lemm.ee
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    3 months ago

    I mean I desoldered the microphones from my fire tv cube. It had 8 separate mics throughout but it works fine without them, kind of a pain in the ass to do though.

    • Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      edit-2
      3 months ago

      The microphone disable switch on every google home/amazon alexa device does not physically disable the microphone; it just informs the software that you’d like it to not listen to you. It can still do so whenever it pleases.

      This is how/why it is able to respond ‘your microphone is currently disabled’ when you try to command it with that switch on.

      • fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        3 months ago

        I had thought teardowns proved this wrong and that some of the devices were hardware and/or a separate chip/software stack?

  • yoshisaur@lemm.eeOP
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    4 months ago

    sorry for asking a question about privacy in a privacy community. i can’t just not use it because my parents are forcing me to use it. if i was allowed to unplug it, i would.

    • JackbyDev@programming.dev
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      edit-2
      3 months ago

      Honestly, just muting the microphone is mostly fine. I really don’t believe they transmit shit to the cloud when they’re muted. I’ve heard a lot of people talk about how they answer when they’re muted so they’re still listening, but they process the “Alexa” (or whatever wake word you use) locally and then send a short buffer of recording along with everything you say following it to the cloud to process. It’s likely they just hear that you said the wake word locally and then say “Hey I’m muted” without sending it to the cloud.

      I know this answer isn’t the most privacy oriented on a privacy community, but I think this option is more reasonable than you’d think.

      You mentioned blocking with DNS. You could try setting up Wireshark or something and see if there are any packets from it when you say the wake word while it is muted and how it compares to when you say the wake word when it’s unmuted.

      Unfortunately the red LED would always be on because it’s muted, but you could cover it with opaque tape. Like electric tape.

      • TheSun@slrpnk.net
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        edit-2
        4 months ago

        Ya there’s no such thing as “being forced to use it”. What are they going to do, lock you in your room with no food if you refuse? Just stand up for yourself and say you are not comfortable having it in your room and don’t compromise on it.

          • kratoz29@lemm.ee
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            0
            ·
            3 months ago

            My neighbor tied her children because she went out and “they fight a lot” she claimed to be outside for 20 or 30 mins but neighbors said it was like half day.

            • kratoz29@lemm.ee
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              0
              ·
              3 months ago

              You’d be surprised what stuff has a higher priority for purchase.

              IMHO the only reason they don’t is because they don’t know how to use it or do not care…

        • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          0
          ·
          4 months ago

          You know, in an ideal world, that makes sense.

          But this isn’t an ideal world. That’s the kind of advice that can get a kid literally beaten in a bad scenario. Parents usually hold all the power in a household, and it isn’t the kind of power you can just shrug off.