• wscholermann@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    Sometimes I think about running away to a foreign country and starting again with a completely clean slate.

    Circumstances of late have forced me to think about old jobs and the horrible things I went through and it’s quite triggering.

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      2 months ago

      Sounds like you’ve got a lot of the past to let go of. Speaking as someone who dragged the past around like an anchor for far too long. Even if you were to go overseas, you can’t escape from you. I hope you can one day find a way to let go of it.

    • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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      2 months ago

      Negative experiences (shit job, shit family, shit friends, trauma, abuse, etc) will cause triggers to manifest naturally, it’s the brain ‘misfiring’ doing risk assessments and memory recollection, similar to the way ptsd works. Something in the world reminds you of that time, and your brain treats it like a new threat rather than a memory, even though it is just a memory.

      You can run away across the seas, but you will still have your brain reacting to triggers.

      It may help to recentre yourself by reminding yourself of what you have achieved, your goals, that you are not ‘there’ anymore. That you have come so far despite your past experiences, and fuck those times where you were in a hard place. You persevered and you are succeeding.

      Sorry for the rant and possible lack of help this supplies 😬

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        2 months ago

        I think once certain things are resolved which at this stage looks like will take six months to resolve it will be better.

  • Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    Dream: I went to Saudi Arabia for a something. It was worse than I could possibly imagine. I met an Aussie. We both remarked at how bad it was.

  • Rusty Raven @aussie.zoneM
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    2 months ago

    I have completed the first part of the physical activity study I am part of, and have the first of my $50 Coles vouchers. I have been allocated to the control group, which means I am required to do nothing different to what I do now, and will be paid $150 for it! Can’t complain about that 🙂💰

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    2 months ago

    This whole taking a break from working thing is doing wonders for my mental health and sleep but that sleep is happening at really weird hours.

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    2 months ago

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    • Seagoon_@aussie.zoneOP
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      2 months ago

      I thought we were past this as a country. 🫤 But there are always going to be extremist arseholes.

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        2 months ago

        If you check any Australian reddit sub (cities, states, Australia or Australian, etc) you’ll find we are not past this at all. There are gross people all over, and they walk among us 😭

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          2 months ago

          they are the minority and their loud extremism means they are noticed

          good people are quiet in their goodness and go un noticed

  • CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    This is the third time in a row I have not had to pay for my coffee. Which means my husband has paid for 15 in a row and I’ve swooped in and collected the freebies.

  • SpinMeAround@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    The time has come - I’ve listed my beloved car for sale. She’s been amazing fun, but I just can’t justify it anymore. Yes, I’ll cry when she goes. Of course, I adore my new car, but it’s a bit of a brat while my old car was a beast.

    Tell me about your favourite cars? What did you love about them? Have you still got them? Or a a favourite car related story?!

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      2 months ago

      My 1st car was a brown 79 Gemini, which meant independence as there was no PT where I grew up. Sticking to a theme, 2nd car was an 83 Gemini. Both were great but they developed wiring problems, which seems to be a Holden thing.

      Current car is an old commodore which will probably need replacing soonish. I love it, but it’s not economical to run and is starting to develop some issues. It’s a shame because I hate car shopping with a passion. Maybe if I hold onto it long enough it will become collectible and go up in value, lol.

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      2 months ago

      My first car was an 82 blue Corolla which was my husband’s first car handed down to me. I got my licence in it. It was like a ride on lawn mower with a good pioneer and speakers in it.

      My car now is a 2006 Corolla. A much better ride on lawn mower but with air con, mp3 and 6 speaker surround sound.

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      2 months ago

      My condolences. I’ve recently lost a beloved car too. I’ve had 2 favorites: A Liberty, and then an Impreza. Sold the impreza to due to family stuff and I miss it every day. But my WRX fund is at about 5% of its target goal and slowly growing.

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        2 months ago

        I contemplated a WRX, but that would have lead me down the path that’s meant I’ve had to move this mustang (way too many mods). I test drove a BRZ and oh my gosh it was so fun.

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          Was it? all I ever heard was it was slow. Yeah I want her to be totally stock. Nothing special at all. Thats half the fun of it. Driving it as subaru intended.

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      2 months ago

      1962 purple Beetle. Was my first car, and the independence it gave me! Many things I could fix on it myself, it was a great learning period of life. It was off the road for repairs more than it was on. My current car is a VF SS wagon. I love it and its one of my dream cars. I will keep it till I die, but I even have to take it to my mechanic to change a headlight globe!

    • PeelerSheila @aussie.zone
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      2 months ago

      Red 1988 Corolla sedan, unglamorous and reliable. It was economical to run and never gave us any trouble. When I (amicably) split up with that ex he bought out my share (I needed the money and he needed the car). As his first “I’m single now so I might go on a trip” activity, he decided to go to Mallacoota and Gipsy Point and chill out. On the highway near Genoa Peak a wombat waddled out onto the road, he hit it and totalled the car and the wombat walked away! He was thankfully uninjured.

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        Wow, so glad he was uninjured (and the wombat!). What a way for the car to go out, nice that you’d already been able to say farewell to it though :)

    • Bottom_racer@aussie.zone
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      2 months ago

      My 2003 Honda civic. Never skips a beat. plan on using that until it carks it.

      On the posh side the old man’s newish BMW 440i. So much tech in that thing a lot of it is useless, like choosing how loud you want the engine start noise to be, changing colour of the led strips, the auto motorised seatbelt, changing the screen to sport mode to see how many g’s you’re pulling, using the centre console button as a touch mouse for the sat nav. Impressive and fun but ridiculously pointless.

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        2 months ago

        Sometimes old school is just best! Although I do love being a passenger in a fancy car and getting to push all the buttons!

  • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    Idk about any of you. But $35 to get into the Royal Melb Show to pat and feed the sheep and goats was 100% worth the price of admission.

    The piglets, deer, llamas, and rabbits were just so dang cute

    photos

    black/white piglets under a heat lamp

    dwarf lop rabbits huddled together sleeping.

    a brown llama and a white llama

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          Yeah, we got Tix for 35 bc we both have Health Care Cards. Otherwise it is exxy as. Still is.

          Didn’t get any food there, but did buy some coffees, checked out all the animals (ag shed, petting/feeding the animals) and went into most buildings. Got a show bag for Mickey, because they had a cat one, and he loves his new wand toy. And I bought a little cat ring heheh. Hopped on two rides. No regrets, and today was a good day as it wasn’t too crowded at all.

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        They didn’t say what breed they were, but I reckon they’re mini lops. You can tell by their size (a bit bigger than a guinea pig), and their ears are ‘loppy’ hence the name. Dwarf lops are bigger versions (like what PeelerSheila posted). They’re super common pets because they’re very friendly and docile.

        I couldn’t believe they had actual deer! I did end up getting a photo of one!

        a spotted deer

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    2 months ago

    I survived the green cookie incident. I think I’ll stick to baking my own. Need to find a good salted caramel white choc cookie recipe ……