1. He saw me walking.
  2. He walked into the grass & mud when I was 15m away.
  3. He continued to walk in the grass & mud past me.
  4. When he was past me for an additional 10m, he walked back onto the sidewalk.

Yeah I was wearing what I think is pretty good style (picture attached), but was that all the reason to get his sneakers wet and muddy?

There was plenty of space on the sidewalk for us to just, walk on our respective right sides.

Need perspective of some men.

Picture of my outfit.


Edit 1

I am going with "DeltaWingDragon"s response. Most likely a covid era leftover behavior, especially because I was wearing a mask and he was not.


Edit 2

For the men posting about not wanting to be a threat, in this case I think it would have been best for you (not him, as his reason is unknown and likely what the precious edit mentioned), is to pass by while following the sidewalk sharing rules (move to your right side of the sidewalk) and nodding a “good morning” or whichever time day it was as you go bye, without shifting much eye focus from the path you’re walking.

Please don’t internalize that you’re a threat, you can be much more then what you’re painted as.

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    20 hours ago

    Is this bait? Or a… humblebrag? I don’t know, but this post comes off to me as slightly unserious.

    You’ve seriously never had this experience before? You’ve never heard of this behavior before?

    You mentioned gender and posted a picture of your 'fit, which tells me that at least you think it had something to do with gender and/or your appearance.

    Maybe you’re being totally serious and curious, in which case… I’ve gotten cynical after my years on the internet.

    • Clocks [They/Them]@lemmy.mlOP
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      Bonjour French speaking friend!

      This is not bait.

      I posted my outfit to help give context hoping it would help men or others better empathize with why the guy in question acted the way he did.

      I also did enjoy my outfit today, and was riding a giddy mood the entire day with it.