If you feel you haven’t presented your argument properly, would you go back to discuss it with that person?

  • cynar@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    It depends if it was a discussion or an argument.

    A discussion is a search for a common truth/understanding. Both parties need to be willing to adjust their views if the other person has a good point.

    An argument is generally when you know you are right. Often it’s intended for the attention of those watching/listening. You’re not trying to convince the other person, but those who would otherwise listen to them.

    Arguments with only the other person present are quite pointless.

    As for your question. If it were a discussion, I would go back to them to see what they make of the evidence.

    If it’s an argument, let it lie, unless they start spouting it to others in your presence. Then it’s down to you to counter them or not.

    FYI, back in my uni days, a friend and I would clear the house with our “heated arguments” (atheist Vs devout Christian). When the rest of the house commented on this, we just both looked at each other in confusion. We had both been discussing and learning from each other. It might have gotten loud, but it never turned into an argument!