I had a girl start choking me when we made out in the back of my van for the first time. I have never been choked nor choked, so I didn’t really know what to do in the moment, just rolled with it. Later asked her about it and asked “is that what you like” to which she obviously said yes. People are horrible at communication, no wonder that relationship failed.
I didn’t, it was, and it would have if I wasn’t so horny.
In hindsight I should have listened myself. It never got better, only worse. And now I’ve been single for years because I cannot trust anyone.