Exactly! Because sometimes you wanna go where everybody knows your name, and they’re always glad you came!

I wonder if putting pub instead of bar would yield different results, they do have slightly different connotations.

“Edit: To all the profile-lurkers, my husband is no longer a moderator, and has a (real) job now FYI”

As does Connect, lots of options

There are devices aimed at special needs kids, think autistic kids that tend to elope. If you search with that in mind you should get more options.

I use connect, and any posts from a user in a blocked instance still pops up with a message saying what instance they’re on and that it’s blocked, but I can click on it to reveal the comment.