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  • It’s not so much about the ports, its about what you’re running that’s accessible to the public.

    If you have a single website on 443 and SSH on 22 (or a non-standard port like 6543) you’re generally considered safe. This is 2 services and someone would need to attack one of the two to get in.

    If you have a VPN on 4567 and everything behind the VPN then someone would need to hack the VPN to get in.

    If you have 100 different things behind 443 then someone just needs to find a hole in one to get in.

    Generally ssh, nginx, a VPN are all safe and they should be on their own ports.








  • I’m early 30s and my wife is pregnant with our first.

    Before I met her 5+ years ago I had no interest in kids, not to the point of considering a vasectomy but I didn’t want kids. I planned to travel and do your typical no responsibility shenanigans. It was clean pretty early on she wanted kids and that really got me thinking what I actually wanted out of life. I’m happy I didn’t end it over kids and I’m super excited to go through this with not only her but a child. The plan is to have more than one and I’m 100% excited for this.

    All of that being said, if things went differently, I’d still be happy living a no kids life. My opinion never really changed, I’m almost 99% sure I’ll avoid other peoples kids but I’m also excited for mine.