$3,500 on a toy is not “pretty expensive”, it’s 3 months salary at minimum wage. It’s 7 times as expensive as the Quest 3, which actually has a user base, and 11 times as expensive as the upcoming Quest 3S.
It certainly pays a couple of mortgage payments.
“We have a strap-on hallucination machine at home”
The strap-on hallucination machine at home: https://www.instructables.com/DIY-Ganzfeld-Goggles/