To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

  • callouscomic@lemm.ee
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    1 day ago

    Americans: “I don’t care how bad the service is, you HAVE to tip a minimum amount.”

    Also Americans: “My experience at the DMV was bad. Fire all government employees!”

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    As a transplant I refuse the whole US tipping system and stick to the way of “rounding it up”. It often ends up around 10% of the bill but % tipping seems absolutely stupid as you are being punished for buying more. A few rare times I actually tipped 20% because the service was very good. Nobody tips me on my job and on average I make less than these people so I don’t see the logical connection of this whole stupid tipping culture

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    20% minimum even if service sucked since it’s virtually always systemic reasons why the service sucked

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    20%—I feel for tip-based workers, but I’m also not running charity nor am I in a financial place in life to be tipping much higher than that.

    If 20% is not in the list I will enter 20%.

  • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    i live in vietnam. it’s a poor country. but restaurant workers here get paid in money so they don’t need to work for gratuity. it would be strange or insulting if you tried to give extra money to the staff.

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    I do the same as you with a few exceptions:

    Laugh at my old man’s jokes about the weather when we go out for our weekly breakfast? You get an extra buck or two

    If I order water, an extra buck or so. It takes the same energy as bringing me a beer. Especially at night clubs.

    Bring me back my change but didn’t break up that fiver? I’ll tip you exactly 18% and make you bring me back five singles

    The bars empty, you’re not making squat in tips and you hang out and chat with me. Could be an extra five bucks or so

    Give me a free beer? I’ll tip an extra five bucks

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    20% for excellent service.

    It goes down from there. Yes zero tip is acceptable if the service sucked. If I ordered medium rare steak and I get well done steak. I normally won’t deduct that from the tip since that is a hard one for the server to see. But if it’s something they could have seen and didn’t fix, yeah I’m probably reducing the tip.

    The tip is for service above and beyond, not a required part of the bill.

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      If my food sucks and the service was good, I tip them specifically in cash and tell them not to mention it, so it looks like I didn’t tip to the restaurant but it doesn’t screw the wait staff. It also makes the restaurant pay just a tiny bit more in payroll.

    • 𝚝𝚛𝚔@aussie.zone
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      They’re trying to make it a thing here. I refuse to participate.

      I’m paying for a menu that has your decent wage built in already, I’m not gifting free money on top for just… doing your job?

      Also wtf servers in places that do tip… you turn my words in to an entry in a tablet (or perhaps a piece of paper), then carry the food that other people created / prepared / transported / cooked all of 30 steps from the kitchen to my table and expect 20% of the bill? Insanity.

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    15-25% usually 20%. I have worked for tips so I get it.

    My wife tipped 25% at an ice cream parlor last night. Which I thought was ridiculous considering he just pulled three pints out of a freezer behind him.

    It’s too many places now.

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    always 15% regardless of service. best or worst, i don’t care. im not going to judge anyone. i just want a meal and consider the 15% to be a convoluted tax for meals here in the US.

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    I’m almost always a 25%. I used to work in the industry in a previous lifetime, and tips were what kept me afloat. Now I’m an overpaid professional, and have no qualm paying it forward.

    The only situations I will tip much less is if:

    • Service was just absolutely fucking abysmal due to very clear negligence.
    • It’s one of these new hipster restaurants that keep popping up, where you order and pay for your food upfront and are expected to tip then as well, without knowing how service will be. I’m not talking about food carts or kiosks either, these are actual restaurants. I hate the expectation that I should just pay an extra premium without even having a chance to evaluate the experience.
  • Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu
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    When I have been in the us I used to tip around 15%. Accepted that as a weirdness of the us.

    On my home country tipping is just weird and unheard of, so 0%.

    Edit: last time I was in the us was like 15 years ago.